I lost my Mum over 15 years ago when I was in ss1 and that is the extent of familial loss I have ever experienced until recently. God blessed me with Mothers of different ages, tribe, and class to see me through life. Far away from home, I will make friends and their Mum will take me in, show me love and care. It told me more than anything that God cares and was looking out for me. But I had this fear. I didn't know how deep rooted until I started saying I wouldn't get married. I figured marriage translated to having kids and I was fearful that I could die at a young age, leaving my kids at the mercy of relatives and I didn't want that at all. I started praying about it and I came to the realisation that I am now in Christ, old things have passed away and all things are new. I am no longer a slave to Fear! Oh how liberating. 5 years ago God made me a mother and it was the end of 'anyhowness' in my life. I could no longer take things for granted. I ...
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